15.21 - The French Village That Invented Mother's Day + Burgundy Wine Secrets
In this FREE edition of le Bulletin, I share my personal Mother'sDay inspiration. Also we explore the heart of French tradition & terroir as we uncork stories & tastes of France. Bonne lecture - Enjoy
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Bonjour mes amis !
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In this newsletter, you’ll:
- Find an article devoted to La Fête des Mères - Mother’s Day in France and I share my personal inspiration for this article.
- Next, we discover what makes the regions and wines of Bourgogne and Beaujolais unique.
- And then finally, learn how the colour of wine offers a pure reflection of the vine and, through it, of nature itself. Do you order wine by colour?Watch out for the PAID subscriber edition of le Bulletin this weekend: “15.21.a - Unveiling France's Heart: Mother's Day Traditions & More”- It’s not too late to subscribe←
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Judy - 24.5.2025
1. Let’s explore & read the new articles in My FrenchLife Magazine
Thank you to all the talented Contributors to MyFrenchLife magazine. I love that your articles take us from one end of France to another and constantly remind us of the rich culture of this wonderful and diverse country.
Merci.
Judy.
1.a.→Unveiling the Soul of La Fête des Mères: A Deep Dive into France's Enduring Mother's Day Traditions (2025 Edition)
by Judy MacMahon ←
Have you ever paused to consider the sheer weight of tradition behind a seemingly simple bouquet of flowers? Moi, je l'ai fait (I have), and the story of Mother's Day in France is a testament to the nation's complex history, its evolving social values, and its unwavering appreciation for the matriarchal figure.
The mother-daughter relationship is a unique bond characterized by deep emotional connection, shared experiences, and the potential for both strong support and complex dynamics. It's a relationship that often shapes both individuals profoundly, with mothers serving as role models and daughters learning about themselves and the world through their mother's influence.
My personal Story
I was inspired to write this article just three months after the death of my own Mother. I've been missing the opportunity to chat with her, and even though she was non-verbal for some time, we’d still manage to communicate somehow on the phone. And when I was with her, we managed to communicate very well! I've been thinking a lot about 'What my Mother taught me', and the list was long. Maybe I'll write about that one day, but today we're talking about Mother's Day in France. Let's go on, shall we? C'est parti
The Genesis: From Artas to a National Celebration
The true origin of La Fête des Mères isn't a grand Parisian decree, but a humble yet revolutionary initiative in the small village of Artas, Isère.
Let's rewind to 1906. Prosper Roche, a visionary schoolteacher, recognized the Herculean efforts of mothers in a time of social and economic hardship. As Pascale Chauvin, a local historian who has meticulously researched this period, explains,
He was very aware of the problems families faced bringing up several children on low incomes... He gave a speech... pointing out that though men were often awarded for their bravery... women were never given any recognition for their role in bringing up families."
Roche's advocacy wasn't just sentimental; it was a call for social justice.
Imagine the stark reality: women bearing and raising numerous children, often in poverty, their contributions completely overlooked. Roche's proposal, submitted to the Académie des Sciences Morales et Politiques, was groundbreaking.
The inaugural ceremony in Artas was a powerful symbol: Marie-Louise Bouvard and Marie Philippe, each mothers of nine, received not only flowers but also a financial reward (a week's wages!) and a certificate acknowledging their "Haut Mérite Maternel" (High Maternal Merit). This wasn't merely a celebration; it was a societal declaration of the value of motherhood.
A Local Voice from the Heart of France
My grandmother," shares Isabelle, a resident of Lyon, "always spoke of Mother's Day as a time of profound respect. It wasn't just about the gifts; it was about the recognition of a woman's strength and sacrifice."
The Impact of War and the Shaping of a National Identity
The narrative of La Fête des Mères takes a poignant turn against the backdrop of World War I. The immense loss of life during the conflict created a national imperative to rebuild the population. In this context, honouring mothers, particularly those with large families, became a matter of national importance.
Lyon, in 1918, held a significant "Journée des Mères" to commemorate mothers who had lost sons in the war. This added a layer of solemnity and remembrance to the celebration, further solidifying its place in the national consciousness.
The 1920s saw the formalization of these celebrations, with the establishment of La Médaille de la Famille Française (The Medal of the French Family). This medal, awarded to mothers (and later, parents) of large families, underscored the societal value placed on motherhood. It's a fascinating glimpse into the post-war French mindset.
Navigating Historical Complexities: Pétain & the Vichy Era
Attention, mes amis! We must acknowledge the complex historical context. Maréchal Pétain and the Vichy regime appropriated La Fête des Mères for their own ideological purposes, emphasizing traditional gender roles and pronatalist policies.
However, as historian Pascale Chauvin emphasizes, the origins of the celebration predate the Vichy era, tracing back to Prosper Roche's pioneering efforts in Artas.
The national day was almost certainly based on the original project sent in by Prosper Roche," she asserts.
It's crucial to disentangle the essence of honoring mothers from its later political manipulations. C'est important de comprendre l'histoire dans toute sa complexité (It's important to understand history in all its complexity).
La Fête des Mères in 2025: A Tapestry of Tradition and Modernity
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And so, we arrive at aujourd'hui (today), and specifically, to May 25th, 2025, when France will once again celebrate La Fête des Mères. How does this tradition manifest in contemporary French society?
While the historical emphasis on large families has evolved, the core values remain: love, gratitude, and the celebration of the maternal bond.
Family Gatherings:
Expect to see families of all sizes gathering for special meals, whether a home-cooked festin (feast) or a reservation at a beloved bistrot.
Gifts of Affection:
Flowers, particularly roses, remain a classic. La Maison FAUCHON reminds us of the significance of these gestures, noting the tradition of giving gifts to express love and appreciation. Chocolates, perfume, and jewelry are also popular choices.
The Enduring Power of Handmade:
And let's not forget the cherished tradition of children creating handmade gifts. The collier de nouilles (noodle necklace), though perhaps less common now, symbolizes the pure, unadulterated love of a child. As the French Moments article poignantly states, it "embodies childhood's innocence, creativity, and boundless affection."
A Modern Perspective on Gifting:
"My daughters spend weeks crafting their Mother's Day gifts," shares Pierre, a father in Toulouse. "It's chaotic but beautiful. And then, of course, there's the obligatory trip to the pâtisserie for a tarte au citron – my wife's favorite!"
Societal Significance
La Fête des Mères is a major cultural event in France, with a large majority of the population participating in the celebrations.
The tradition is deeply ingrained in French society, comparable in importance to other major holidays.
While commercial aspects exist, the underlying sentiment of honoring mothers remains paramount.
In Conclusion: A Celebration of Enduring Love
La Fête des Mères is a testament to the enduring power of maternal love and the profound respect it commands in French culture. From its humble beginnings in Artas to its evolution into a national celebration, this day reminds us of the sacrifices, the strength, and the unwavering devotion of mothers.
And on May 25th, 2025, France will once again pause to say,
Merci, maman. Je t'aime” (Thank you, Mum. I will always love you).
Au plaisir de vous retrouver! (It's a pleasure to connect with you!)
Judy
PS: Read the entire article in MyFrenchLife Magazine.
I'd love to hear your stories about Mother's Day in France. Please share in the comments below.
Sources & Further Reading:
The real history of Mother’s Day in France - The Connexion
La Maison FAUCHON - What is the origin of Mother's Day?
La Fête des Mères (Mother’s Day) in France: Traditions and Customs - Complete France
… and other assorted snippets, long-time readings and experiences.
Note:
Mother's Day in the USA and Australia was on 11 May 2025
Mother's Day in the UK was on 30 March 2025
Mother's Day in France will be on 25 May 2025
I’d love to hear from you:
“What's your most treasured memory of celebrating Mother's Day, either in France or wherever you were? Was it a special meal, a handmade gift, or perhaps a moment that captured the essence of maternal love? I'll start—when my daughter was seven, she secretly learned to make crêpes with my neighbor and surprised me with breakfast in bed
complete with a hand-picked bouquet of wildflowers…
Or?
What’s your story?
Do you have a story or photo to share?
b) →Bourgogne et Beaujolais
by Eveline Chartier
This is a series we enjoy, Eveline's expertise, and really delve into French wine. Each contribution comprises a few articles around a theme, enabling you to better understand. This one is: Bourgogne and Beaujolais.
The Bourgogne (aka Burgundy) and Beaujolais wine regions share much history, although they have very different characters today. Discover the important elements that make them unique,” writes Eveline Chartier.
Discover more - Read Eveline’s rich article ←
c) →Why choose wine by its color
by Victor Coutard←
Seeing wine is the first step in drinking it, and choosing a wine by its color means selecting based on personal desire rather than the knowledge imposed by labels.”
In nature, color plays a crucial role in evolution. This applies to the plumage of birds, the petals of flowers, and the flesh of fruits. Wines—especially those made without chemical inputs—offer a pure reflection of the vine and, through it, of nature itself,” writes Victor.
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Judy MacMahon
Chers amis (dear friends)
Until next week, may your days be as rich as Burgundy wine and as warm as a mother's embrace.
I hope this newsletter has sparked your curiosity about the hidden gems of French culture, from the humble origins of La Fête des Mères in Artas to the complex character of Bourgogne and Beaujolais wines.
Perhaps you'll share a glass with someone special on May 25th and pass along this little piece of French history.
Remember, it's these authentic traditions that keep us connected to the heart of France, even from afar.
Je pense à vous tous avec affection et en attendant notre prochaine rencontre. (I‘m thinking of you all with affection and looking forward to being here with you again.)
Warmly yours,
Judy
judy@myfrenchlife.org
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Merci Judi, quel bel essai, beaucoup de choses que je ne connaissais malgré que j'ai passé presque toute la semaine à fabriquer et emballer des cadeaux pour les mamans de mes élèves ! L'importance du travail d'une mère est trop souvent oubliée !
Bonne fête des mères pour demain - j'espère qu'on se souviendra de toi !
What a wonderful edition of Le Bulletin. I still haven't read the other articles, but loved yours about Mother's Day. I had never even thought about its history in France, and am now wondering how it compares to other countries.
I know this one was bittersweet for you, so you have all the more merit for writing it! Xoxo